Some people are so skilled that they can see betrayal before it even happens. I'm really getting rather perplexed. I drive by the Grand Canyon and its beautiful. I visit the redwoods and I'm thrilled. I see a beautiful woman, but I'm supposed to go blind. I'm not supposed to see that. If something is beautiful in another person, there's no harm in admiring that. If your cheater you are already that.
If you're not cheating, then why are we even talking.