Hi Ginger, I have a wonderful cousin that I write to every day and every day I tell her how wonderful she is and what she means to me and I mean every word of it sincerely or I would not say it . I don't think you can ever get enough of things like that. It's so easy for some people to dispense pain and hurtful remarks. Certainly, there is enough in the world, and your terrific article says loving behavior is healing for everyone.